Tuesday, January 17, 2012

5 weeks!

5 weeks to go until our new little bundle arrives!  Actually, 5 weeks at most.  Who knows if he will come early???  I am getting more excited as it gets closer.  I must be wired backwards because most people I've talked to are MORE nervous the second time because they know exactly what to expect.  I feel so much more at peace because I DO know what to expect, even though every delivery is different.  It was a bit funny at my dr.'s appointment yesterday, because the regular nurses were both out, so it was a different lady and she told me he was going to check me to see if I was starting to dilate.  (Sorry if TMI, it's just a fact of life though guys!).  I know I had a strange look on my face because I felt like I did.  She grabbed my arm and tried to comfort me and told me it would be fine.  I snapped out of it finally and said "It's okay, it's not you, it's me.  I can't believe I'm having a baby in 5 weeks."  I think she still thought I was nuts.  It was a reality check I guess.  I really can't believe I did or said that.  I think it just hit me all at once.  It was weird.  Anyway, I left the appointment so at peace for some reason.  I think I was nervous about the appointment because the twins were born at 35 weeks.  I know, I know, they were multiples, but I was still holding that thought in the back of my mind.  I was worried I'd walk in to the appointment and leave heading to the hospital, just like what happened with the twins.  I had felt bad yesterday morning, then I started worrying about my weight gain, because that was a big factor with the pre-eclampsia.  At 34 weeks pregnant with the twins, I had gained 7 lb. in one week with that, plus had high blood pressure, tons of protein in my urine....etc.etc.  Anyway, I think once the appointment was over, I could be at peace that this pregnancy IS different, and I hopefully and am praying hard that I won't be faced with another emergent delivery situation.  Everything was fine with the appointment and I'm down to weekly appointments now. 
I am having an ultrasound next Monday, so I'm very excited about that.  I have stacks of ultrasounds from the twins because I was high-risk.  I have 2 sets from this baby.  :-(  I felt like we knew the twins before they were born because their personalities shone through the ultrasounds, even though we didn't know their genders.  I feel like I don't know this baby very well, even though I know he's a he.  I remember seeing the twins' faces, you could see their hairlines and noses in the 3D pics....it was neat.  I am so curious to see what this baby looks like and what his personality will reveal.  I know I won't get all that at an ultrasound on Monday, but I at least am excited about the opportunity to see him once more before delivery day.    We are doing the ultrasound because of a family history of BIG babies.  Dustin was about 10 pounds and all of my neices and nephews were 10 pounds plus, especially the boys.  Let's face it, I had 11 pounds of twins in my belly before my body called it quits and the pre-eclampsia started.  We don't want to be faced with a surprise like that in the middle of delivery, or be faced with an emergency.  So....hopefully we'll get a good estimate.  I also want to see how he's laying because I think I know, but I could be totally wrong. 
Anyway, I'm off to bed.  I'm very tired lately and the little guy must be laying on a nerve in my back, because it is very hard to sleep, my back is hurting a lot at night.  No real complaints though......just the usual pregnancy stuff.  :-) 
Our neice Riley is going to be born in the morning, so Dustin & I will go see her tomorrow night. 

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